Friday, March 5, 2010

Women and Men Altruism

What is altruism?
Altruism focuses on a motivation to help others or a want to do good without reward, while duty focuses on a moral obligation towards a specific individual... Pure altruism is giving without regard to reward or the benefits of recognition and need (source:

Many women act based on emotional-thinking, where men use rational-logic-thinking. Actually this difference make unique collaboration both women and men, but sometimes also become source of problems. A couple gets divorced or break because one or two of them can’t understand each other. Women use to much emotions, while men use to much logic. Many expert suggest that couple should find equilibrium between rationality and emotional, so that they can solve daily problems.

Why altruism is so important to strengthen relationship?
Because the base of altruism is preferred to give something than accept, serve than being served. A form just like empathy or strong sympathy that makes people around is happy. This is the reason why people like Gandhi so much loved by the Indians, why lots of young man proud to Mandela. All of this happens because they have strong altruism that reflected in their life.

But the world is changed, women with tertiary educations who choose as a partner men who have not finished high school are 10 times more likely to separate or get divorced said Patricia Karvelas. What we face in society is not the same with theory that we read in books. Cause culture is not always formed by society, but educational background, friend, neighborhood, etc. They blended all of the juice in their head, without filter it again.


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